Widows and Property Rights: A Cultural Injustice Dikko Falilat Kehinde Death is painful, but for many Nigerian women, the real battle begins after the burial. A woman loses her husband today, and before the tears on her cheeks can dry, relatives begin to ask questions: “Who owns the house?” “Where are the documents?” “What happens…
The Fragile Flower in a Dangerous Garden: Why Women Must Take Their Security Seriously Dikko Falilat Kehinde There was a time when mothers sat comfortably at their doorsteps till midnight, watching their daughters return safely from nearby shops or evening lessons. Those days now seem like fading echoes in a cracked mirror. The world has…
Single. Successful. Still Judged. By Dikko Falilat Kehinde There is a particular silence that follows successful women around the world. It is not the silence of peace. It is the silence of scrutiny. A woman may build an empire from the dust of struggle. She may rise before sunrise, battle through boardrooms, raise siblings,…
Marriage Is Not a Reward: What Every Woman Must Understand Let us be clear from the start. Dikko Falilat Kehinde Marriage is not a prize. It is not a certificate of success. It is not a reward for being patient, obedient, or “good.” Yet, for many women, it has been presented that way for…
MENOPAUSE: THE SILENT TRANSITION EVERY WOMAN DESERVES TO UNDERSTAND. By Dikko Falilat Kehinde There is a phase in a woman’s life that is rarely talked about openly, yet almost every woman will experience it—a time when the body begins to change in ways that can feel confusing, uncomfortable, and sometimes frightening. This phase is called…
Beyond Beauty and Love: Why Every Woman Must Build Her Own Worth By Dikko Falilat Kehinde It starts as a quiet question. Not loud. Not dramatic. Just a small voice that visits at odd moments—while dressing up, scrolling through social media, or sitting alone after a long day: “Am I enough?” For many women,…
Sex, core assignment in marriage – Rev. Stellamaris Ajetomobi reveals Vice President of The Men of Issachar Vision Inc., Rev. Mrs. Stellamaris Ajetomobi, has sparked conversation after sharing her views on marital roles, describing sexual intimacy as the “core assignment” in marriage. Speaking on the subject of marital responsibilities, Ajetomobi said intimacy was the key…
What If He Changes? The Fear Women Carry Into Every Relationship Let us be direct. Dikko Falilat Kehinde This is not gossip. This is not entertainment. This is a serious issue, and it deserves a clear head. Every day, women enter relationships with one silent question: what if he changes? Not loudly spoken, but…
Boxing, Wrestling and Weightlifting: Women in “Unfeminine” Sports By Dikko Falilat Kehinde There was a time not too long ago when the idea of a woman stepping into a boxing ring or lifting a heavy barbell was greeted with raised eyebrows and whispered criticism. Society had drawn invisible lines around certain sports and stamped them…
THE HIDDEN PAIN: LIVING WITH ENDOMETRIOSIS AND ADENOMYOSIS By Dikko Falilat Kehinde There are pains that announce themselves loudly — a broken arm, a visible wound, a limp that draws sympathy. And then there are pains that whisper, burrow deep, and refuse to be seen. Endometriosis and adenomyosis belong to the latter. They are the…
