Bedroom or Kitchen Last week, we boldly opened the door to the bedroom and what a conversation that turned out to be! I received messages that made me laugh, blush, and reflect. One woman said she sent the article to her husband with only a 🔥 emoji. Another simply wrote, “Oreoluwa, you exposed my secret…
My Secret Weapon in Marriage? They say marriage is a journey. What they don’t always tell you is that the road isn’t paved with rose petals. Sometimes, it’s full of potholes, unexpected detours, spiritual “check engine” lights, and the occasional flat tyre of the heart. One moment you’re exchanging vows with teary eyes and cake-filled…
HORMONAL HEALTH IN WOMEN This week, while listening to a group of women share their personal stories, I was reminded yet again of something many of us live with but rarely talk about openly, how our bodies sometimes begin to feel unfamiliar, and how what we call “just tired” or “just stressed” is often much…
The Guardians of Culture: How Nigerian Women Are Preserving Heritage In the ever-turning wheel of time, where the old is constantly threatened by the new, Nigerian women stand like ancient trees, firm, rooted, and graceful. While the world rushes headlong into modernity, they are quietly tending to the fire of tradition, making sure it never…
WOMANHOOD AND MOTHERHOOD: A Divine Trust Worth Honouring By Oreoluwa Dikko Let’s face it, life doesn’t come with a manual, but if we’re lucky, it comes with a mother. From the bustling streets of Lagos to the sun-kissed villages of Abeokuta, one truth rings out loud and clear: the woman especially the African womanbis the…
Addressing Gender-Based Violence in Nigeria and Africa Gender-based violence (GBV) in Nigeria and across Africa is not just a disturbing trend, it is a full-blown crisis. It festers in the shadows of our homes, our streets, our institutions. Like a serpent underfoot, it strikes when least expected, sinking its fangs into the lives of women…
Forgotten Heroines: Women Who Shaped History There are names we hear in school that echo across the pages of time: kings, conquerors, emperors, and generals. History often tells us of those who led nations, drew boundaries, signed treaties, and held the world in their hands. But rarely does it pause to whisper the names of…
The Unforgettable Legacy of Alhaja Simbiat Atinuke Abiola In every generation, there are women who don’t just exist… they shine. Women who rise above limitations, rewrite the rules, and leave behind legacies that make history sit up and take notice. Alhaja Simbiat Atinuke Abiola was one of those rare gems. A woman of substance, resilience,…
Iyabo Ojo: A Crown-Wearing Warrior – A Salute to All Strong Women Not all queens live in palaces. Some reside in modest homes, yet they wear their crowns with dignity and grace. One such queen is Iyabo Ojo, a woman whose story continues to stir hearts. When news of her daughter Priscilla’s wedding to Tanzanian…
Battling Stigma and Finding Support Last week, I took you on a journey into the inner sanctum of the female body a divine creation that bears life, endures pain, and whispers truths we often choose to ignore. We talked about Mama Bisi’s silent struggle with fibroids, Patience’s battle with endometriosis, and Adenike’s breast cancer scare…
